I have a confession to make, I am cheating......... On my pediatrician. I love my pedi, I really do. I think I may have the six year itch!!! When I am with him, my attention is with him. He gives us the attention that we need, but I am starting to feel like he is always trying to find time to fit us in his life. A couple of weeks ago he was too busy for us and we had to see someone else. As soon as she walked in and starting talking, and asked me what I thought, I stated to get that First date feeling. I tried to tell myself that it is because it was a new relationship. As the weeks are going by, I find myself making the boys appt. when she will be there and he will not. Today,I got caught! When I was sitting in her office and he walked by I got a pit in my stomach.
Is it even politically correct to switch doctors in the same practice. I really want to spend more time with her, but do not want to give up the relationship I have built with him. I am going to stop seeing her and work on our relationship. I do not feel right just leaving after all we have been through, but maybe there is someone out there better for me. I think I may need counseling.
Christa
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Well, unlike Tiger you've "strayed" for the right reason: your kids. I think I remember from when we met who you doctor is, and the only negative we ever heard about him was how busy he was. You don't want to feel like you're being pushed off to the side, never knowing which doc you're actually going to see on the day of your appointment. I wonder if the doctor you're "cheating" on him with is our pedi, in which case we think she's fabulous! Hey, the heart wants what the heart wants, right?
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Have either of them promised they'll leave their practice for you when the time is right? They always say they'll leave, but they never do. Always so complicated when there are kids involved.
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